MSN with M

M: Oi! rested well?
Me: K and I had a tiff.
M: dang.. u do know he cares for you a lot rite? cos its true... he keeps telling us how much he loves u. a few of us close mates that is.
Me: he did??
M: he tells me abt his feelings for ya
Me:You are making me cry. I was depressed the whole nite. he thinks I seek perfection and that nothing is good enough for me.
M: dun be silly. ultimately he cares alot for u and i know that he will feel SHITE as hell if he cant acheive what u want
Me: He thinks i shld get a third neutral party to talk abt the issue, which i find totally unnnecessary
M: i figured man and woman are forever gonna be different and we view things differently... threshold very very different as well. so sometimes we just need to move on and not be affected.. cos the core reasons for thge arguments are usually driven by the desire to make things better
Me: We came to that same conclusion too.
M: and a third party HELPS. it IS NECESSARY. we are too consumed into out own selfish tots and needs more often than not, we forget whats really important. im not saying the 3rd opinion will be always rite. but more often than not u'll find insights that'll help. it makes you wonder if you're right all the time or you just choose to skew the scenario and read the situation in a way that makes you the one that's right all da time...
Me: true that but wont it be a third different opinion?
M: u need to learn how to slowly open yourself up. so doesn't it help when you open up sometimes? and how it is something that you can feel vulnerable abt? Am i gonna have a different perception abt u now? Hell no. Am i thinking u're some problem child and dun wanna have anything to do with u again? Quite the contrary really, cos the next time I see u i know i can talk to u at a different level cos i understand you more now...

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M: now go kiss and makeup with that wuss... that magic shithead.

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